The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2011 annual report for this blog.
Here’s an excerpt:
The concert hall at the Sydney Opera House holds 2,700 people. This blog was viewed about 13,000 times in 2011. If it were a concert at Sydney Opera House, it would take about 5 sold-out performances for that many people to see it.
On this wonderful Christmas Eve. there are a ton of romantic things that you can do for your girl. What you need to do is surprise her with something, start a new tradition. Give her flowers, let her open a present, make cookies, watch a special holiday movie, light candles or sit around your Christmas tree and talk about what you want out of the new year. Just start something new that you two can do next Christmas Eve. and all the future Christmas Eve.’s
Have fun and just love each other!
Merry Christmas!
Tags: Lesbian Love, Lesbian Relationships, lesbian romance, romantic traditions, The Lesbian Challenge, traditions
This is a courtesy post to let my readers know that there is a lot more coming from me and this blog…soon! My following has grown and I couldn’t be more excited. I didn’t think that people were reading, but you are and I appreciate it. So stay posted and you will see more posts, reviews and other pages added. I am brainstorming and building a timeline in order to have more for you.
Thank you my pinkies, I really do appreciate you reading! As always my email is open as well as my blog posts for comments, suggestions are always welcome!
Have you ever dated a woman with children? Were the children she had from a relationship with a man or a woman? Does it make a difference whether she was with men or women in her past? How do you deal with creating a relationship with a woman who has children? How do you build a relationship with the children?
There are so many issues that arise when you date a woman with children, especially if she was with a man previously. Not only do you have to worry about her going back to a man, but you have to deal with him as a presence in their children’s’ lives. That could be something that is hard to deal with. If she had children with another woman then you still have to deal with that other parent and the jealousy issue that are connected with their past (and present and future).
How would you cope? Would you continue with the relationship or move on?
I believe there are ways to build a relationship with a woman who has children, but it takes extra care and patience to do so. If you are up for the challenge and believe the woman has something for you long-term then I say go for it. Take heed though, the woman is a mother before she is a girlfriend or a lover. If she does put you first then there are other problems that you need to pay close attention to, but if you are willing to be second to her children for the sake of a relationship then do it, and take those extra steps to make it work.
M.I.L.F’s do exists and although they are a packaged deal it can be a very satisfying package, if you know how to go about making it work.
Tags: Children, Kids, Lesbian Love, lesbian mothers, Lesbian Relationships, Motherhood, Relationships
How do you make your girlfriend feel sexy? Is it something you do because you believe she deserves to always feel sexy or for other
reasons (like to get some)? I think that making your partner feel sexy should be a daily thing. I mean, you’re with her for a reason, there is something there that attracts you to her so let her know about it.
Here are some things you can do that will make your girl feel sexy:
There are a ton of ways to make your girl feel sexy, you just have to do it.
Tags: Lesbian, Lesbian Love, Lesbian Relationships, Lesbian Sex, Sexy Girlfriends
Where do you draw the line for not getting attention from your significant other? Do you expect constant attention or can you survive with minimal attention, knowing that your girl loves you? How do you plan spending time together if you both work, go to school or have other obligations? Do you blame your girlfriend if she is exhausted from working or do you support her in what she does and how she takes care of you in other ways?
I know sex is important in relationships, but if you work, go to school and have a full, demanding schedule do you still expect your girl to “take care” of you nightly? Do you make her stay up even if she is tired? How do you deal with less time spent together?
I suggest giving your girl the benefit of the doubt, especially if you love her and appreciate all that she does. If you know she loves you and you know that she is working her butt off, time with you will come and it will be more special. I believe that certain times call for certain measures and if your girl is busy with reaching goals and she isn’t a bitch to you and still keeps up her end of the relationship then you shouldn’t be mad.
However, if she starts to neglect you and starts treating you badly then you can complain about the time you two spend together. Just remember, what you are going through now, will pay off in the end, just be supportive just like you would expect her to be!
Tags: Lesbian Love, Lesbian Relationships, Partnerships, Quality time, support
Have we all fell victim to sexting? Is is different when you’re an adult versus a teenager? We know that you shouldn’t do it as a teenager, but is it something that is okay to do when your older?
Have you done it? Did you think about the consequences afterward? Are there less or more consequences as you get older? Actually, I can somewhat (kind of) relate to wanting to send a sexy text message, and I have, but is there a line to draw even if you are with someone?
I think that yes there is an age limit to sexting, you definitely shouldn’t do it if you are under the age of 18, but once you have the full reign of your actions and your body, and you have a significant other than do it. Actually you can do it tastefully. You don’t have to have full vagina shots every text message, but you can send a sexy “I’m thinking of you” text.
Tell me your best or worst sexting stories…
Tags: Lesbian Love, Lesbian Relationships, Lesbian Sexting, Relationships, Sexting, Texting
No I’m not talking about the song by The Cars, I am talking about really liking or even loving your best friends girlfriend. Can this really happen? Has it ever happened to you? Have you ever liked your best friend’s love interest? How would you deal with something like that? Would you act on it or would it be a “bros before hoes” situation 
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If this has happened did you forgive your best friend? Did you still try to work it out with the girl? Did you dump the girl completely and still remain friends with your BFF?
What if the girl was just in to games and was trying to break your friendship up? How would you deal with losing your girl and your best friend due to mind games? Share your stories…
Tags: Best Friends, Cheaters, Girlfriends, Lesbian Friendships, Lesbian Relationships
Since economy is so bad and people are loosing their jobs, would you rather be the worker or the stay-at-home girl? Sometimes it is inevitable if you lose your job or if your hours are cut or if your pay has been cut. But if you have a partner who is working, do you just let them take over and be the bread-winner? Or do you try to contribute financially? What if you can’t find another job, do you turn your attention to the house work? How do you find a happy medium with the transition from working to not working?
Since being in a relationship is a partnership would you just go into homemaker mode or would you wait for your partner to say something? If your partner did say something would it piss you off? How do you have the “help” conversation?
I would guess that being unemployed or underemployed would be a touchy subject so asking or requesting help from that person could lead to some heated arguments. So how do you approach the matter? How do you tell your partner you need help because your exhausted?
Share your thoughts or experiences!
Tags: Homemaker, Lesbian Love, Lesbian Relationships, St-At-Home, Unemployed, Work, Working Lesbian
Yes, believe it or not there are boring lesbians out there. Just because they are into chicks does not mean they are interesting. As with the straight world of dating, there are the lumps of boredom that come and go in our lives. And like with any dating scenario, if the other person is super lame, the date sucks. How do you deal with the dead-beat dates? How do you end the date? What if the boring girl calls you and wants to go out again? How do you let her down?
This is kind of funny subject only because sometimes the women can be semi-interesting during the date and get your attention, and then afterwards they turn out to be real dull. By then your stuck, probably moved in already and everything. (Okay maybe not, but lesbians like to move fast).
Or another case could be the girl is interesting but the sex is boring. OUCH! What do you do then? How do you tell the girl her sex is lame?
Share your responses and help others out there who are suffering!
Tags: Boring Lesbians, Lesbian Dating, Lesbian Relationships
