My girlfriend is a Facebook stalker, she loves the drama. She will spend hours searching for drama, read all of it, add the people just so she can keep up. I swear Facebook is like a virtual high school and it just sucks people in. I have fell victim to it a couple of times, but I try not to air my dirty laundry on the internet (here doesn’t count). Well, recently she has been checking out a lot of the gay girl profiles and befriending these chicks only to find out they claim transgender, but are having babies with men and living a “straight” girl life. WTF?!
Is this even allowed? I mean I know that us as a gay/lesbian community support most other gay/lesbian issues and people. I do, I love being a lesbian and part of such a colorful and diverse community, but come on, isn’t there a line that us as a people can draw and say, “hey you can’t do that.” It’s frustrating that people will get beaten and ridiculed for living a life that they know and feel is the way they were supposed to be, and then some little teeny bopper can claim that same lifestyle just for the attention, but in return just be a regular straight girl.
I might get a lot of negative feedback from this, but it ticks me off that people can do this and think it’s okay. It is NOT okay. Be gay, be straight, just be who you are. If you think you’re trans then explore that, but do it the right way not by lying. Don’t claim the life on Facebook just to be someone totally different in real life. It’s misleading and toys with people’s emotions. What if someone started to care for the trans you and after opening up to you realized that you were in face, not trans and were lying about it the whole time? Yeah, not fair and that makes you an a**hole!
So, get it together ladies, be who you are and don’t be crazy.