Do you and your girl share when you think someone is cute? Do you think it is okay to talk about other people’s looks with your girlfriend? Or do you get upset when your girl thinks someone else is good-looking? Do you think your girlfriends says other people are cute too much? What happens when you express that someone else looks cute?
Saying that someone else is cute or good-looking shouldn’t be something that sparks major controversy in a relationship, especially if the two of you are stable and trust each other. But there is a line that can be crossed. If your girl starts saying things like, “I would wax,” or “You wouldn’t have a threesome with her?” Like it is a big shock if you don’t want to get it on with someone else, jeez!
I think it is okay to share with your girlfriend if you think someone is good-looking, but when you say it about everyone or make it seem like all you do is look at other people in a lustful way, then that is where the problem begins.
Also, if you or your girl always bring up the people you think is cute, then that is also a problem because they or you are thinking about that person. That is not a good thing when you are with somebody. For example, if you and your girl go somewhere and then days later she asked you, “Remember that cute girl we saw at the club blah blah?” That is not cool!
What do you think?