Some women have waited to come out in their older age, not necessarily mid-life but older than their childhoods. When did you come
out? When did you know you were lesbian? When you were young did you do stuff with a bestie and not think anything of it? Or did it affect you in your sexuality? When did you realize you were into the ladies?
Some people know right away that boys are gross and they really love their best friend, or things that were said in our young age that was put off as just saying something like, “Wow she is amazing,” or “She is really good-looking,” but in reality it was meant as damn she is fine! Sometimes it is easier to come out younger to get it out-of-the-way and to not be stuck in a situation that will make things harder for us to move forward with our lesbianism, like kids or marrying a man.
What is your first experience with a girl? Was it when you were younger? Did you practice kissing with your best friend? I know I did, I was super girly but I still played the daddy. I didn’t think anything of it, I wanted to be in charge even at a young age. Don’t get me wrong, when I played Barbie’s’, which I did, I did the whole girl-thing, but my Barbie’s’ had experiments too!