Now Top That…You Don’t Really Want To Top That.

Okay, okay, the lyrics are from the movie Teen Witch, but the post is about tops and bottoms. Is there such roles in a lesbian relationship? I know that with gay men that they classify as tops or bottoms, but I don’t think I have ever heard of a lesbian saying anything like that. If lesbians do classify themselves as tops and bottoms, would it be the giver is the top and the receiver is the bottom? What if its 50/50 (like it should be)?

What percentage of giving makes you a top and what percentage of receiving makes you a bottom? How the hell is that determined? What if your neither? Would you be a middle? There are too many roles in the GLBT community and I think that those roles should be dropped. It is too exhausting to try to keep up. Don’t we have enough to worry about than wondering if we are tops, bottoms, butch, femme, UGH!

Mz. Pink

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