When you think of cheating what do you think? How do you justify making that decision to cheat on your partner? How do you feel when you get cheated? Have you ever been cheated on? How did you feel when that happened? Did it make you feel justified when you cheated back?
Cheating or making the decision to cheat is tricky and wrong. If you are with somebody who you want to be with then cheating should never be an issue. Trust and communication make a relationship (among many other fun and thoughtful aspects) but after you cross that line to be with someone else, then the trust and communication aspects are shot, and no matter what you do it will never be the same. If you are happy then cheating should not be an issue. The conclusion is simple, if you are not happy with a person and you want to cheat, then leave them, break up with them, and make it a “for good” decision. Don’t break up for a week just to sleep around. You can not have the best of both worlds when it comes to this. And you shouldn’t be that selfish. Be with one person or the other OR be single and sleep around.
Cheating does not make you cool, it makes it difficult for people to trust you, and when you finally find that one special person who you would never want to hurt, they will find it hard to trust you because of your sneaky past. They will never fully believe that they are special and therefore will hurt you and her. So, with this in mind, do you cheat much?